I was driving across town yesterday and couldn’t help but notice all of the advertisements at churches about “Divorce Care”. Living in the Bible Belt, it’s hard to go too far in any direction without passing several churches. But for some reason yesterday I was surprised by how much support there was for people affected by divorce. As someone who has been through a difficult divorce, I understand the need for support and help finding your way in the aftermath. In the last few weeks I have also been watching the new season of Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew. In a very odd way, I have found that the more I understand people’s tendencies to engage in things that are not good for them only aids me in helping my clients. So, while this rehab show is quite entertaining, I also learn a lot about human behavior. While I have never been addicted to drugs or alcohol, I have witnessed in my own home how addiction can ruin a person, a life, and an entire family. Just as with divorce, overcoming addiction requires a huge amount of support and love to conquer the demon within.
|Me moments before my wedding|
It can take far too long
to find the strength to get out
While many people would not be willing to compare divorce or substance abuse to being overweight or obese, in many ways they are much the same. In all three situations, it takes courage to admit there is a problem, willpower to fight the problem, and immense strength, love, and support to destroy it for good. When I was going through my divorce I remember my pastor saying, “It’s one thing to get up, it’s a whole other thing to get out.” It rang so true for me because I knew for far too long that my marriage was toxic, but it took incredible conviction to actually get out of it. While I had not heard those words at the time, it was the same way when I was overweight. For years I felt self-conscious, lethargic, unhealthy, and simply unhappy with myself. But it took true dedication to get healthy before I actually did it.
|Me at 15 years old|
With courage & support,
I got out & you can too
Now, I completely understand that substance abuse can be dangerous and even deadly – I have witnessed this firsthand. And I am awfully aware that divorce can destroy a person and a family – I am not only a divorced woman, but the child of divorce. I know how destructive these circumstances can be. But, I also know that approximately 10-15% of Americans suffer from addition to drugs & alcohol, approximately 40-50% of marriages end in divorce, but nearly 70% of Americans are overweight or obese. So, while obesity may not be such an obvious devastator, it is much more widespread. When you have mothers dying from heart disease, fathers dying from diabetes, children living shorter lives due to illnesses causes by junk food and their sedentary lifestyle, obesity is just as dangerous and deadly. And it is currently affecting most every American in some way. What’s worse is that obesity is preventable.
If you are feeling lethargic and unhappy due to your weight or if your weight is out of control, or someone you love has health problems due to obesity, don’t just get up, GET OUT. It is a toxic and destructive place to be and it is time to make a change. I will help you – together we’ll find the courage, willpower, and strength to get out for good. I will help educate, encourage, and motivate you to find your way out and get your life back. Go to http://www.coachdconsulting.com/Services.html to see all the ways I can help you and those you love. Obesity is 100% preventable – let’s conquer the demon and get out today!